Upon my initial read of James 4, I felt surprisingly discouraged…
Often, when I think about reading the Bible, I imagine passages of hope and stories of Jesus, especially when looking at the New Testament. While I admit to not being the most avid reader of the Bible, I always thought the depressing parts were part of the Old Testament, and the New Testament was reserved for the more upbeat stories of Jesus and the early church (not counting Revelation of course). However, this chapter appears to fight that expectation. Upon first glance, this chapter is surprisingly negative, with James focusing on what’s wrong with the world around him. Though unexpectedly pessimistic, James still offers us valuable advice.
“What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don’t they come from your desires that battle within you? You desire but do not have, so you kill. You covet but you cannot get what you want, so you quarrel and fight. You do not have because you do not ask God. When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures.” (James 4:1-3)
James starts off strong here by talking about fights and killing and the causes of such events. After reading these first few verses, I hope you can see why I was initially discouraged. At first glance, it’s like James is telling us that all the fighting and killing around us is simply due to desire. Straightforward and simple. While there is some truth to that, I don’t think it’s that simple. I think the key to these verses isn’t the fact that we desire. Let’s be honest, as humans we’re going to desire and there’s no way around it. What’s important is how we go about that desire and act on it. If we simply act out of desire alone, that’s when we get into sticky situations that lead to fights and quarrels and killing, we must put our desires to God. But then again, unsurprisingly, things aren't that simple. We can’t simply ask God for what we desire and expect to be able to act on it with no problem. It’s about our motives as well. Oftentimes our desires root from selfishness and pleasure, so it’s natural that we aren’t able to get what we want. Therefore we must check that our motives are just and put those to God.
“You adulterous people, don’t you know that friendship with the world means enmity against God? Therefore, anyone who chooses to be a friend of the world becomes an enemy of God. Or do you think Scripture says without reason that he jealously longs for the spirit he has caused to dwell in us? But he gives us more grace. That is why Scripture says: “God opposes the proud but shows favor to the humble.”” (James 4:4-6)
Verse 4 especially gave me trouble on initial reading. At face value it seems like this verse is telling us not to be friends with the people around us, for it will mean betraying God in the process. If the previous verses weren’t enough this’ll certainly get you down. How are we supposed to spread Jesus’ love without being friends with those around us? However, a little more context helps to give a bit more hope and a better understanding of what this passage is saying. I think a more optimistic view tells us that rather than being friends with the world is a betrayal of God, it’s choosing to befriend the world OVER God that’s the betrayal. Rather than being proud and thinking we could gain more from befriending the world compared to befriending God, God favors those who accept God’s friendship, for God is the source of our spirit.
“Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Come near to God and he will come near to you. Wash your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded. Grieve, mourn and wail. Change your laughter to mourning and your joy to gloom. Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will lift you up.” (James 4:7-10)
Now verses 7 and 8 seem pretty straightforward, turn to God and resist the Devil, pretty basic stuff there. The part that confuses me though is the next verse, where James says to change our laughter to mourning and our joy to gloom. It may just be me but that seems very depressing, and is a bit challenging to comprehend. Why would God want us to be mourning and gloomy rather than laughing and joyful? Because of the difficulty I had with this verse, I turned to a friend to see what she thought it meant. She said that to her, it means that because we’re sinners and double-minded (a state of spiritual instability as I understand it) we grieve, mourn and wail, but this is before we humble ourselves before Christ and are lifted up. After hearing her interpretation, this passage and verse makes a lot more sense. Though we may reach this low point of gloom and mourning, it’s through Christ that we can be lifted out of it.
“ Brothers and sisters, do not slander one another. Anyone who speaks against a brother or sister or judges them speaks against the law and judges it. When you judge the law, you are not keeping it, but sitting in judgment on it. There is only one Lawgiver and Judge, the one who is able to save and destroy. But you—who are you to judge your neighbor?” (James 4:11-12)
Thankfully at least something James says in this chapter is straightforward and not super depressing at first glance. Essentially verses 11 and 12 tell us not to judge or slander those around us, for we aren’t the one who plays Judge. As something many of us have heard most of our lives, this lesson is pretty easy to understand. Whether Christian or not, the message to not judge others is a classic, and is one for a reason. It’s a good lesson to live by and can prevent a lot of damage and hurting of others. However, putting that lesson into practice is something that a lot of people, myself included, find a bit more challenging. As someone admittedly struggling to put this into practice, the best advice I can give to grow from this is to become more aware of doing it. By just becoming aware of how we judge and slander others, we can hopefully recognize it easier and learn to prevent it.
“13 Now listen, you who say, “Today or tomorrow we will go to this or that city, spend a year there, carry on business and make money.” 14 Why, you do not even know what will happen tomorrow. What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes. 15 Instead, you ought to say, “If it is the Lord’s will, we will live and do this or that.” 16 As it is, you boast in your arrogant schemes. All such boasting is evil. 17 If anyone, then, knows the good they ought to do and doesn’t do it, it is sin for them.” (James 4:13-17)
This was another one that was a little harsh at first. The first two verses of this section seem to discourage planning for the future. As someone who loves planning in general, coupled with a fear of the unknown, this message was hard to wrap my head around. Even though we don’t know the future, isn’t it still a good idea to plan ahead? Why does James seem to argue against this idea? Isn’t calling people mist that vanishes a little harsh? Again, this was another passage that got a little less pessimistic as you read on, specifically verse 15 in this case. Because of the inclusion of verse 15, the meaning of the passage changes. Rather than telling us to not plan for the future, I think James is telling us to plan our future with the Lord and/or through the Lord, and choosing not to do so is a sin.
Conclusion
After giving this chapter a more thorough read along with some time to digest, James seems to be a lot less aggressively negative than at first glance. While some parts of this chapter still don’t sit quite right with me at the moment (which will hopefully change with time), my view on this chapter has changed some. Rather than being depressing and pessimistic, telling us all the things we can’t do and being unfairly strict, I’ve come to view James more so as tough love, being strict in order for us to be the best we can for ourselves and the Lord.